Resources & Recommendations
Curated Resource Library
All resources have been chosen with a focus on **autistic-led** and
**neurodiversity-affirming** content. We prioritise voices of autistic
people themselves over clinical or parent-focused perspectives.
Autistic-Led Organisations
International Organisations
- **ASAN** — Autistic Self Advocacy Network (USA) — https://autisticadvocacy.org
- **Autistic UK** — https://autisticuk.org
- **AMASE** — Autistic Mutual Aid Society Edinburgh — https://amase.org.uk
- **I CAN Network** — Autistic-led mentoring (Australia) — https://icannetwork.com.au
- **Autism Network International (ANI)** — https://www.autreat.com
- **Neurodivergent Activism** — grassroots autistic advocacy
- **AASPIRE** — Academic Autistic Spectrum Partnership in Research and Education — https://aaspire.org
Organisations to Approach with Caution
- **Autism Speaks** — widely criticised by autistic community for cure-focused rhetoric, minimal autistic leadership, and historically harmful campaigns
- **Any organisation** that uses puzzle piece imagery, talks about "curing" autism, or does not have autistic people in leadership positions
Books
- **"Unmasking Autism"** — Devon Price (2022) — essential reading on masking, burnout, and authenticity
- **"Neurotribes"** — Steve Silberman (2015) — definitive history of autism and neurodiversity
- **"The Reason I Jump"** — Naoki Higashida (2007) — non-speaking autistic perspective
- **"Thinking in Pictures"** — Temple Grandin (1995) — visual thinking and autism
- **"Pretending to be Normal"** — Liane Holliday Willey (1999) — Asperger's memoir
- **"Loud Hands: Autistic People, Speaking"** — Julia Bascom, ed. (2012)
- **"Divergent Mind"** — Jenara Nerenberg (2020) — neurodivergent women
- **"The Electricity of Every Living Thing"** — Katherine May (2018) — late diagnosis memoir
- **"Camouflage"** — Sarah Bargiela (2019) — graphic novel about autistic women
- **"Spectrum Women"** — Barb Cook & Michelle Garnett (2018)
- **"I Overcame My Autism and All I Got Was This Lousy Anxiety Disorder"** — Sarah Kurchak (2020)
- **"Sincerely, Your Autistic Child"** — ASAN (2021) — advice from autistic adults to parents
- **"Is This Autism?"** — Donna Henderson et al. (2023) — modern diagnostic understanding
- **"Women and Girls with Autism Spectrum Disorder"** — Sarah Hendrickx (2015)
- **"NeuroTribes"** — Steve Silberman (2015)
- **"In a Different Key"** — John Donvan & Caren Zucker (2016) — autism history
- **"Uniquely Human"** — Barry Prizant (2015) — strengths-based approach
Podcasts
- **"The Autistic Culture Podcast"** — exploring autistic culture and identity
- **"Autism in the Adult"** — practical advice for autistic adults
- **"1800 Seconds on Autism"** — BBC podcast featuring autistic voices
- **"Actually Autistic AF"** — raw, honest autistic perspectives
- **"The Neurodivergent Woman"** — focus on women and AFAB experiences
- **"Autistic Masking"** — deep dive into masking and unmasking
- **"NeuroClastic"** — autism through an autistic lens
- **"Squarepeg Podcast"** — neurodivergent families
- **"Spectrumly Speaking"** — autistic women's experiences
YouTube Channels
- **Purple Ella** — autistic woman, late-diagnosed, UK based
- **Yo Samdy Sam** — autistic woman, informative and personal
- **Paige Layle** — young autistic advocate, educational
- **IndieAndy** — autistic man, adult diagnosis journey
- **Aspergers from the Inside** — Paul Micallef, practical strategies
- **The Aspie World** — Dan, covering all aspects of autistic life
- **Invisible i** — Katy Amesbury, autistic woman creator
- **Autism from the Inside** — Paul Micallef, deep dives
- **I'm Autistic, Now What?** — educational content
Online Communities
- **r/autism** — Reddit, general autism community
- **r/AutisticAdults** — Reddit, adults only
- **r/aspergirls** — Reddit, women/AFAB focus
- **r/aspergers** — Reddit, Asperger's identification
- **r/AutisticPride** — Reddit, celebration and advocacy
- **Wrong Planet** — https://wrongplanet.net — longstanding forum
- **Autism Forums** — https://www.autismforums.com
- **#ActuallyAutistic** — hashtag on social media for autistic voices
- **Mastodon** — growing autistic community on the fediverse
- **Discord** — search "autistic adults" for multiple servers
Screening & Assessment Tools
Online Screening (Not Diagnostic)
These tools can indicate whether further assessment may be
worthwhile. They do not replace professional diagnosis.
- **AQ-10** — Autism Quotient 10-item screening
- **AQ-50** — full Autism Quotient (Baron-Cohen et al.)
- **RAADS-R** — Ritvo Autism Asperger Diagnostic Scale-Revised
- **CAT-Q** — Camouflaging Autistic Traits Questionnaire
- **Aspie Quiz** — https://rdos.net/eng/Aspie-quiz.php
- **Embrace Autism** — https://embrace-autism.com — comprehensive online tests with interpretation
Important Notes on Assessment
- **Self-diagnosis is valid** — barriers to formal diagnosis are real (cost, wait times, bias)
- Formal diagnosis is **not required** to identify as autistic
- Assessment should be conducted by someone experienced with **adults** and **women**
- A good assessor will ask about your **entire life**, not just current presentation
- Bring evidence — school reports, diaries, family observations
- Some people bring a "trait list" document — this is helpful, not "cheating"
Crisis and Support Lines
- **International**: Befrienders Worldwide — https://befrienders.org
- **UK**: Samaritans — 116 123 (free, 24/7)
- **UK**: National Autistic Society — 0808 800 4104
- **USA**: 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline — call or text 988
- **USA**: Crisis Text Line — text HOME to 741741
- **Australia**: Lifeline — 13 11 14
- **Canada**: 988 Suicide Crisis Helpline
- **New Zealand**: Lifeline — 0800 543 354
- **Ireland**: Samaritans — 116 123
- **South Africa**: SADAG — 0800 567 567
Research and Science
- **SPARK** — Simons Foundation Powering Autism Research — https://sparkforautism.org
- **Autism CRC** — Cooperative Research Centre (Australia) — https://www.autismcrc.com.au
- **AASPIRE** — participatory research with autistic co-researchers
- **PubMed** — search for autism research — https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov
- **Google Scholar** — academic papers on autism — https://scholar.google.com
- **Autism journal** — peer-reviewed research — SAGE Publications
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